Tuesday, March 30, 2010

March 30, 2010

Not much has happened in the last few days since I blogged. Brinley is feeling better, but the poor thing is SO sick of rice! She almost cried at the lunch table today when Mercedes served stir-fried cabbage, carrots, peppers and onions over rice. Everyone liked it and ate it, but poor Brin just left the table and sat outside reading her book. I was going to make her a fried egg sandwich, but we were out of eggs. Mercedes felt bad and went and bought 4 eggs from the neighbors. I made her a sandwich, and she scarfed it down with some canned peaches. She is really slimming down between the poor appetite and increased activity. Even my boys have noticed and complimented her!

Homework seems to be the hot topic for yesterday and today. The kids are somewhat behind, and have become a little lazy and unfocused. Braeden is working hard finally at catching up. Brinley is caught up, and found a book at Fr. Jack's gringo room. It's called "The Five People You Meet in Heaven." It must be good, because she hasn't put it down much for the past 2 days.

I read the book "Water for Elephants.".....a phenomenal book. Anyone who works in Long Term Care should definately read it! I got a pedicure last evening. What an experience that was. Seriously, I soaked my feet in a basin with a garbage bag in it. Well, they do what they can with what they have! It took over an hour, and cost me only $7! I also had Walter, a reflexologist and massage therapist work on my neck/shoulders last evening. I got a 1 1/2 hour treatment for ....you won't believe it......$10.00!!! Today I am without a headache.

I was at the Medical Post this morning working. I saw the 14 year old I blogged about earlier, who just gave birth. Turns out she had a C-section. She was crying and in a lot of pain. Please understand, that in Peru, pain medication is not really utilized like in the States. So she's had nothing post-op for pain. When I removed her bandages, I expected to see an infected incision site. To my surprise, it was very clean. Dr. Luis came in, looked at it, and walked out. I cleaned the wound and re-bandaged it. Then, with my best "Spang-lish", I tried to instruct her about massaging her abdomen. Her uterus was boggy, and so I made her more miserable by massaging her uterus and showing her how it needs to feel like a hard ball inside. This little girl, age 14, just a child herself is on her own--now with a baby to care for. It's just SO SAD!!!

The young man with the stab wounds was also in today. I was the assistant again for Dr. Luis to check the wounds. We took out several stitches. Just as an example, the laceration to his upper shoulder blade--about 4 inches long, only had 3 stitches in it! Now any nurse or medical person reading this will know what I saw next.....Dr. Luis took out the 3 stitches and I saw clear down to the muscle. He was moving the flesh around and it was separated from the muscle. Yep. Good 'ole nurse that I am, about hit the floor when he started screaming in pain!!! But the miracle part is that I don't see any infection starting in any of the wounds......they are doing something right!!

Monique and her group went up into the mountains to another village today. They will return on Thursday and leave already on Friday. Wilder is with them, along with a few kids from the choir.

So this is Holy week, and I learned today that there's no Saturday evening mass......The mass is actually on Sunday at 3:30 AM!!!!! This will be yet another great cultural experience for us!! The kids are already whining about it.......oh well......heard it's quite expectacular!!

Well, gotta go. Need to go downtown to find a color printer to print off some photos. My friend Patricia is doing some sketches for some of my friends.

Until Next Time,
Collette

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Sunday, March 29th

Yesterday was the big day for the "walk of faith". We got up at 5:30am, got ready to go, and met at the church by 6:30. Fr. Jack, Brookston, Braeden, Bridger and myself along with 3 otheres from the parish took the van to the base of the mountain and began our "walk". All along the way we had "stations" where there's a cross, signifying the stations of the cross similating Jesus's crucifiction. It was about a 3 hour walk up the mountain, twisting and climbing as we went along. It was really hot, and there were about 2500 people on the trek. As we neared the top, there was a breeze which helped a lot! When we got to the church, they had a re-enactment by some kids of the crucifiction. It was pretty real, and quite surreal to be honest. We then had mass for all, and started our decent. It only took the kids and myself 40 minutes to make it down the mountain back to the van. When we got there, (ahead of the rest), we waited for 30 minutes for them to get there. Of course, we had NO shade, so there we sat in the hot desert sand/rocks waiting for their arrival. We were back at the paroquia (parish) by 1:30pm.

The gringos from Fargo arrived at 3:30pm. Monique, bless her soul, brought a football for the boys. They practically unpacked her bags for her so they could get it! THANKS MONIQUE!!

Last evening we had a palm Sunday procession starting 7 blocks away from the church. We had a donkey with a "Jesus" and around 100 people in the procession. We got to the church, and to my surprise, the donkey and "Jesus" proceeded up the aisle to the altar. It was really awesome to see. Sometime during the mass, I needed to be excused, and was outside. Braeden and Bridger followed me. We were sitting on a cement bench in the garden, when all of a sudden people started running out of the church, and running out of the homes all along the paroquia. I was like, "what on earth is going on?" People were in panic mode, and looking up at the buildings when it dawned on me that our bench had been moving. I had chalked it up to the kids playing around and moving the bench, so I didn't really notice much, but when we discovered that we couldn't even budge the bench we knew instantly that we had partaken in an earthquake.

Fr. Jack continued with the mass, and all was well, luckily. Panic set in for me when I realized what was going on, and Brookston and Brinley were still in the church. I said a few quick prayers and left their fate up to God......I felt so helpless and panic=stricken. Wilder later told us that when it's windy here, there's usually an earthquake tremor of sorts, and then the wind stops. That's exactly what happened.

Today, we took 400+ people to Vesique Beach. Ron Stensgard and family arranged for the 6 large buses and all the food to be taken to the beach. The families from the soup kitchens were the guests for the day. Despite our slathered-on sun-screen, Bridger and I managed to get burned. The beach was gorgeous as always, but today it was very windy after lunch. I was a little nervous tonight about another tremor, but none so far.....the kids had a lot of fun.

Everyone hit their beds tonight early from their long 2 days of exercise and excitement. Tomorrow will be back to "normal".....school work for the kids, and myself working at the medical post.........time is sure flying by fast! Tonight my house dad, Julio, told me that he's going to be very sad when we leave. He's gotten pretty attached to us, and loves kids. He asked if we wanted to stay for a year............I won't divulge my answer to that! LOL!!

Until next time......
CM

Friday, March 26, 2010
















March 26, 2010

Today was a very emotionally charged day. I spent the entire morning at La Caleta, a government-run hospital near the harbor. This place was nowhere near an inhabitable hospital setting. The rooms had anywhere from 6-8 people in them. No TVs, no bathrooms. The beds were old, decrepit, rusty things with orange plastic mattresses. No sheets. No pillows. Maybe a blanket if they brought one from home. I visited Carmen, a woman I saw yesterday at the medical post who was pregnant and leaking fluid. She gave birth around 2am. For these new moms, nothing special. Again, no sheets--no pillows.......

There was a 14 year old girl who had just delivered a baby. No support system, no family. She has to work the streets to make money to survive. Most of these young girls are now being diagnosed with HIV when they test positive for pregnancy.

I spent an hour with the doctor and nurse who oversee the SIDA, or AIDS program. It is just SO sad! I saw the registery of people who are registed as having AIDS. Most of them are ages 16-35. There's an equal amount of men and women by my estimation. I saw very young people coming in for their meds and other treatments. My heart was just sick. With meds, their life expectancy is only up to 5 years because of the poor conditions here. Without meds, only about 1 year from diagnosis to death. The government is supplying medications to those who have HIV/AIDS through a World Fund. This will only be for about the next 2 years, and the funds are projected to run out. There is nothing in place in Peru to continue the programs. Chimbote has a very large gay population, and a very large prostitution rate. Education is scant, and those who have the disease are considered "outcasts". They do not utilize the hospital for their care, as they are shunned by staff. So they are taken care of by outreach workers from our Hospice facility here at Fr. Jack's.

On my way out, there was another young teenager in labor in the hallway about to give birth. Nobody was helping her except for some family members rubbing her back. She was crying, and the desperation on her face was heartbreaking. We also visited a little girl from Wilder's neighborhood. She's 18 months old and fell onto a boiling pot of water in her estera home. Her hands are severely burned almost up to her elbows. They are hoping to save her hands, however the healthcare is SO poor there, I believe if she doesn't die of infection, she will be incapacitated for life.

Yesterday when I was working at the medical post, a young man came in for dressing changes. He had been attacked on Saturday with a knife by someone who stole his shoes.....Adidas, in fact. He has a 7 inch laceration to his lower leg, a 5 inch laceration to his right shoulder blade, and a 4 inch laceration/stab wound to his left side. Dr. Luis had stitched him up on Saturday, and we did the dressing changes for him. The medical care at Santa Ana is outstanding compared to that of the hospital.

Braeden is doing much better. He woke up yesterday with "life" in him and has been eating. I would say he's about normal now. They worked at Kelvin's this morning at the wood working shop.

Tomorrow we will meet at the church at 6am for the "Walk of Faith" procession. It's anticipated that 2-3000 people will make the trek up the mountain to the church on the hill. Brinley has chosen not to attend and will go to Nuevo Chimbote with Luis Carlos tomorrow. Luis is working on getting a teaching job there. She has enjoyed spending time with "Luigie"---he's helping her with some of her homework. She remembers him well from when he lived with us for 3 months, so I am comfortable with this friendship.

Monique Moser is scheduled to arrive around 2pm or so. The kids are very excited! They hope she had enough room to pack a football for them!

Well, enough for now. I need to pack the backpacks with water and snacks, find the sunscreen, and find our sneakers, as tomorrow morning will arrive very soon.

Love to all,
Collette

By Brookston for Spanish Class

hola mi amigos, and hunter
on monday we went to trujillo another town in peru. it is the second best sruffing beach in the world and the resturant that we ate at was on the beach i looked like a screen saver. while in trujillo we went to chanchan the oldest ruins in south america they were 1000 years pre inca or somthing. we tuwerd the palace and it was about the sieze of edgeley it was huge good thing we had a guide or we would have got lost but the tour guide said that there was only 1 percent excivated so it was a huge empior. Braeden got sick while we were there so we had to go home early he was pucking on the bus it was not good. so now i am the only one who hasnt got sick yet. on tuseday we went to a swimming pool in new chimbote it was big and we went at night so there was nobody els. me bridger and braeden are going to kelvins a wood working factory/zoo.
we made beds and today we had to sand 20 chairs by hand ant the varnish them it took forever. tomorow we are going to walk up a mountain with 2000 people for good friday i don't know why it is on saturday and not firday. sunday we are going to the beach with 500 people whe work in the soup kitchen so that will be fun.
well thats all so i will rite next week.
adios

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

March 24, 2010 by Collette

WOW.....nearly one month already! Time is just flying by! Braeden has "it" now too....I call it the "it" b/c we don't really have a name for it. High fever, vomiting, and diarrhea. We went to Trujillo (2 hours north by bus) on Monday to see Chan Chan, which is an entire city buried in the sand, discovered in the 1940's. They have excavated and preserved one of 5 palaces, and so we toured the one on display....what an awesome experience! The empire dates back 1000 years PRE-inca, so the 1200-1400's...........

After our tour, we went to Juanchancho, a town nearby. This is where the re-nowned 2nd-best surf waves in the world are located. WOW.....I mean WOW....they were HUGE! The kids played on the beach while we waited for our lunch...........this is when Braeden became ill. He didn't eat, so this was my first clue he wasn't feeling well. He tried octopus, or calamari, and that was about it. We then went downtown to the center to see the government buildings, and it was apparent that Braeden wouldn't last the day. We went back to the bus station and got on our way back to Chimbote.......Braeden, poor guy, emptied his stomach 2 times on the bus. Of course, no bathroom on this one!!! He has been sick ever since. Today, no vomiting or diarrhea, but extreme weakness and dizziness. Wilder and I will take him to the Dr. tomorrow AM if he's not snapped out of it yet......he's been on the bactrim, and fever is gone, but lethargy and dizziness remain.......

Tuesday was filled with activities. After morning studies, Brookston and Bridger went to Kelvin's "Fundo".....carpentry shop and helped to make beds and chairs......Bridger was the "glue" man, and Brookston was chiseling the wooden ends of furniture pieces. Pretty cute.

I met with Sr., Juanita at the Hospice, and we talked for a great length.......I am now in contact with Liliana, who will set me up working with the SIDAs patients, or AIDS in English. Friday will be my first day. Tomorrow will be filled with working at the medical post (Santa Ana) giving immunizations and organizing the medical supplies. In the afternoon, helping Judy move her social work office and meds to the new Wimbush building. Evening meeting with my artist friends at their home.

Brinley and Bridger went to the prevention center today, and will be doing this daily around 3:30pm to about 6pm. There are American Gringos in charge of helping at the center, so the kids go with them.

Monique Moser is to arrive on Saturday around 2pm per my understanding. We are anxiously awaiting her arrival, ready to welcome her to our new Peruvian Lifestyle. She used to babysit the kids, so this will be a really rewarding experience for all of us! The boys have summoned her to bring down an American football.....which we have not been able to locate anywhere in this country!! LOL......

Today I met with all 4 kids and asked them about leaving early....like right after Easter Sunday. Nobody wants to go home early. This is VERY surprising to me, since Braeden is ill and Bridger is "bored" and "misses his English TV shows!!" LOL.....Since I have to change our return flight home, I will only pay the fee once, so thus far, we will be staying as planned until around the 20th.

Will post more as we go along!
Thanks for all your prayers and comments!
Love to all,
Collette

Sunday, March 21, 2010

My Side of This Story By:Brinley Mathern




Ok, Mom said when she was reading Brookston's part that she was so embarrased in his spelling. Now my side of this story. Ok, I'll start at this so i haven't wrote yet because I met so many people :like Lesly (9) , Danna(14) ,Fiorella (14), Yasmin (13 I think), Harey ( 14) , Pattrick( 6), Stephine (10), Cristen (12), Dego (8) , Jude(11), Oscar (12) and, Javiar (14) and they are so good at Volleyball and Soccer.We been here for 24 days and 3 weeks and 3 days. It is the 21 of March and I miss my whole class and my grandpa, grandma and, my father, but I'm having a lot of fun down here. My brothers are the same . The 13 of March was Brookston's B-day and celebrated in the darkness! It was so fun. I did not sleep last night people were playing loud music. The LAMA Group was here and I helped them with the patients. We went swimming 2 times we were here and one was with Liz (moms friend). She took Bridger and I to the pool (I bet you are wondering were Brookston and Braeden were at-- Adian's house then at the pool with us but they bugged us so much Liz and Bridger and I went some were else and Adian stayed with the boys. Liz took us to the boats and fed the fish and we road in a boat. Then, went to drive the 4-wheelers . I noticed the money here is different then ours it is in Soles and centimos. Thats it for now and thats my side of the story.

Friday, March 19, 2010

spanish class

i learned alot of new spanish word like
bano is bathroom
beber is drink
luago is later
donde estas where are u

the thing i dont like is sleeping

i like to play volly ball with the kids they are trying to teach me how to play soccer and kick the ball properly its alot harder then it looks on tv.
got the ball stuck on the roof like 5 times.
my favorite food is lomo sentado i might have spelled it wrong.
civeche is disgusting it is raw fish cooked by lemon citrus
cuy is ok it task like rost beef. ttyl chau

SPANISH CLASS

having fun here it is about 85 degrees here every day. whent to the pool and we werent alowed to swim in the 9 ft water with out a head cap and gogles it was stupid so we had to stay in the 3 ft water. they said we could go in later if we could swim so breaded said he could swim and when the gut told him to swim to the other side he did but did a cross between a doggy padly and what ever michle phelps dose. so we couldnt swim there. on saturday we have to go teach a bounch of girls how to play basketball one speaks english like i speak spanish so preety poorly the other dont understand a single word of english so it will be dificult. bridger was sick on tuesday he is feeling better now. i want to go to the guns and roses concert i lima on the 25th but all the tickets are sold out. there is a camra crew here doing a dvd about the missions and we might get to be in it trying to teach people how to play basket ball . then a holly wood producer will see me and i will be a big movie star and make alot money. thats the plan any ways. well talk to you later hellow to everyone adiose.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

March 16th, by Collette

WOW. It's already been a WEEK since I posted last! Well, some of you may know I've been sick.....err----on my death bed, one would think! Severe diarrhea, vomiting from the cramping pain, and dehydration. Was taking Cipro, and was feeling better, when I got a horrible sinus infection! Stayed on the Cipro, but to no avail. Saw Dr. Luis yesterday.....cost me 4 soles, or about $1.30 which included a Z-pak!!! Lucky for me, the gringos from the LAMA group from the states have all kinds of drugs here for our medical mission.....we found pseudofed....the REAL kind, and I started that yesterday as well. Felt pretty good today, then tonight it's the stomach again..........UGH!!!!! There have been a few gringos "down" with this as well......Dr. Ed has been in bed all day with it! So Bridger had a VERY high fever during the night, was delerious, and near convulsions. I crushed tylenol and put in jelly to try to get the fever down......fever kept rising, so I cold-packed him in bed.....got it down somewhat and waited it out. An American Dr. came to see him this morning, and we started him on his bactrim, G2 electrolytes, and Tylenol. Diarrhea and vomiting set in, it was a day! POOR kid! Finally got some Ibuprofen from the LAMA group, which brought his fever down in no time. He has been laying around all day.

The other kids have been feeling OK. Brinley's cold is resolving and the 2 big boys are cocky, thinking they won't get anything! Hmmmmmmm...........

So I was able to put in some hours at the medical post yesterday and today, when I could.
I was a "floater" or the nurse "go-fer".....which allowed me flexibility with my illness and the kids'. We have handed out hundreds and hundreds of lice kits. SO glad I have the preventive spray! I also have been giving everyone age 3 and up a dose of parasite med. Whoever comes in, gets the med and the lice treatment....(they take the treatment home).

Dr. Jeff Lystad from Fargo is here, and has been keeping tabs on things. He has 2 of his adult kids here too, who are med students. We have definately been busy, when we aren't "confined" to a bed or the bathroom!!

We had a nice time at Adrian's (choir) house for Brookston's BDay on Saturday. The choir surprised him by cooking a lucious meal of chicken, rice, and you got it---potatoes!! :-)
That evening, we had no power on our block, so Brookston had to cut his cake by candle light. It was awesome cake! I went to bed very early, and the kids and house family all played games via candle light, told stories, and danced to the music! They were loud and having a lot of fun, and I just couldn't even lift my head! Sorry Brooks! However, Brinley told me they had more fun w/o me cuz they could act goofy and jump on the furniture!..............

Sunday I was feeling "a little bit better" and needed to get my kaboodle out of the house......so the kids and I, brother Tony, and cousins Oscar and Javier went to Los Pinos, a park with a swimming pool. They swam while I tried to bake the crap out of my head......Church Sunday night was awesome with the 40 new gringos here.......

The boys each have a "girlfriend" so to speak....or at least one that they each like. Thank God it's not the same girl! LOL.....they are sweet kids....I might have trouble getting them to come home.....Brinley also has a severe crush on a boy, so we shall see how this all plays out!
Bridger just dodges everyone......he walks by and they touch and squeeze on him and say, "gringito"! Means cute little gringo......

So that's it pretty much in a nut shell. We don't see too much of Wilder, b/c he's running around wild running for needed supplies, water, etc.......next week things will be quiet again!
Just hope everyone is feeling up to par!!!! WE HAVE LOTS TO DO YET!!!!

PLEASE NOTE----it's so much easier for me to put photos on facebook. We have hundreds on FB under my account.....Collette Mathern. Just request me as a friend, and you can view them all with their comments. Go to www.facebook.com to sign up! It's free!! LOL...

Love to all,
Collette

Wednesday, March 10, 2010




Wednesday, March 10th

Time is flying by fast. Monday was more house visits. Tuesday the boys, Wilder and I went to Julio's home to make his bathroom door accessible for his wheelchair. No tape measure, an old rusty hand saw, and rusty re-used nails, but we got it done! Julio was SO happy. Julio is a very good friend of Fr. Jacks (now), who in 1991 was paid and ordered to kill Fr. Jack. The details are not all known, but long story short, Julio had a conversion, and became a life-long friend to Fr. Jack. Years later, he was in a vehicle accident which rendered him paralyzed from the waist down. Thanks to "gringos", or American donators, Julio has his own electric w/c. He lives alone, and has been very ill of recent. He's had some blood transfusions, and is still very weak, but in the past 2 days he has been up in his chair and able to go out for a little while. We just need to return to fix the cement so he can make a smooth transition from the dirt into the bathroom, where he will be able to bath himself.

Brookston has been craving hamburgers VERY bad, so Monday evening, brother Tony, Brooks and I went downtown to a new market....much like a super walmart, but smaller......To our dismay, fresh ground hamburger was over $5.00 for about enough for 2 hamburgers. SO we were about to abandon that dream, when we spotted some frozen hamburgers in a freezer case. For 15 soles, or about $5, we got a package of 14 burgers. Wilder leant us his indoor electric grill, and I made home-made mac n cheese.....so it was American supper last night, which we cooked for our family and Willy. They really liked it! Mom Mercedes had some left-over "sandia", or watermelon, for desert. Bridger of course did not want to share, but too bad..........

So all was well until sometime in the very very early morning (before the roosters were awake), I became quite ill......diarrhea and vomiting. Wouldn't have been so bad, but the CRAMPS rendered me unable to even move. They were like labor pains, including back pain. I was ill all morning. Wilder got word and brought me some Immodium AD....I was SURE I had packed some, but couldn't find it. Brother Tony made me some coca-tea, which I was able to keep down. Mom made chicken soup for me for lunch, and that stayed in OK as well. So I thought I was on the mend, and it started all over again....the severe cramps. On top of that, I know I'm dehydrated, b/c the water just pours out of every orifce and pore in my body! So I sit here now with a huge headache.

Tomorrow will be the usual study in the AM for the kids, lunch, rest, play.........If feeling better, I will be prepping for the LAMA group. About 6 or 7 are arriving tomorrow night. Wendy will arrive here with my brand of shampoo/conditioner that was stolen out of our containers here. Brinley's and my hair has been a frizzy mess!!!! Thanks to Jill Weiman, our hair dresser in LaMoure, we have tea-tree oil shampoo and spray for lice prevention! That was an awesome suggestion from her!

Brinley, Braeden and I all had sore throats on Tuesday, but Braeden's and mine have resolved. Brinley is very congested and has a runny nose......which I assume she caught from her friends Oscar and Habier......house cousins who live downstairs from us......

So I have learned that poverty takes no breaks.....it does not recognize holidays, weekends, or even hours of sleep. It is a continuum of chronic needs and lack of funds/supplies. No matter the issue at hand, there is "never enough".....supplies, food, money, etc.......Poverty is a mere evil force stalking around waiting for the ruin of spirits and souls.

Sunday, March 7, 2010
















March 7, 2010

Can it really be Sunday already? We've been here a week, and it seems like a blink and time is gone. The kids are learning SO much....they are picking up on Spanish, and even doing a little arguing in Spanish with the neighborhood kids. Comical to watch and listen to!

The volleyball net is a huge hit, and kids are around all the time now...Brinley played literally all day yesterday! She even skipped going downtown with us......
The roosters, dogs, and squeek horns are really getting on my nerves! No sleep last night. A few blocks away, a neighborhood is having an anniversary party of the opening of their neighborhood.......loud music all night, heard in our house like it was outside our door. They have fireworks here that are hand made, and there are no laws limiting the amount of dynomite. I seriously jumped out of bed twice last night when they went off....thought we were being bombed.

We have several long-term volunteers here.....Luke and his wife have been here 1 month and are staying for 5......he is from Lidgerwood, ND! There are others from Indiana, Washington, and several universities....they all live with families as well. A family with 4 kids our age arrived for a couple of days....they have been in Peru for a year....Can't imagine!!! It just amazes me how people are so willing to give up their time and talents to help out down here.....everyone has their own projects that they are working on.......

The boys will be getting some paint and re-painting the BB court lines....this is their special project they want to do this week....Hmmmm...wonder why?? LOL

Bridger has been a little naughty.....trying to "scare" the lying, sleeping dogs on the street. He makes a fast step towards them, trying to scare them.....when we were in the barrios yesterday, he did this and a dog nearly attacked us. Maybe a lesson learned? He turned white as a ghost and then he got a very verbal lashing from me! He also likes to stick his head out the window and crow at the roosters to get them riled up.......gonna choke that kid!

Despite all my efforts to control what the kids eat, or drink, they still are "pressured" by their peers....Brinley had something us gringos call "liquid typhoid".....I freaked out, of course. She said she only had a bite or two....so far so good, no symptoms of illness. I guess they will learn the first time they get deathly sick....

We are SO thankful that our house mom Mercedes takes such good care of us! We are served meals restaurant style, she does all the cleaning of our bathroom and bedroom floors. She does all of our laundry by hand, which is a HUGE chore! The kids wear their clothes until they are almost crawling which saves on the amount of laundry, but not so much the time.......

I would say we are all about to start growing feathers....chicken, chicken, chicken! Chix n rice, chix n potatoes, chix n potato salad, UGH! All those carbs rev Bridger up, and make me very tired!!! Not a good combination. The food is VERY good, however it's very repetitive. Today we are having lunch at Mario Bazaan's family. Mario lived with us for about 3-4 months one year. He is living in Chicago with his son Delton who is also a good friend of ours.

Soccer tournaments starting, and the kids are already sunscreened up and off to watch...gives me a little quiet time....well, as quiet as it gets, I guess :-)

Yesterday the boys and I went downtown to the warf, Plaza, with Miguel.....so many nice changes since I was here last. We saw the boats//ships, and had a nice time walking around downtown......we found a pastry shop and wanted to get some pastries, but thank God Bridger reminded me we still needed 4 soles to get back home!!! Maybe next time.

The biggest thing that sticks out in my mind is a comment from Brinley and Bridger....."Mom, when do we get to see the poor kids?" I said, "REALLY? Look around!" They told me, "these kids aren't poor....they are HAPPY!" What a PROFOUND view from a 7 and 10 year old who have "everything." We had a long converstation about how really, we are the ones who are poor, because we cannot find happiness...we always want more, we always want the 'best'.....my kids found happiness in using a string for a VB net! Brookston has been smiling more than I've ever seen him...he usually just mopes around with lowered shoulders. Now, he's off and making a difference.......I AM SOOOOO PROUD OF THESE KIDS!!!!

Yesterday, without discussing it with me, Brookston gave his nice pair of BB shoes away.....he decided that his "old" ones that he wears daily here were good enough, and Miguel needed them more than he did......OK---gotta admit I was upset for about 1 second, then I cried.

Gotta go.....boys said they lost Bridger.....UGH!!
More later

Friday, March 5, 2010

03/05/2010 by Breaeden Mathern

I am having alot of fun there is this one lil kid who has shoes that squeak when he walks it gets very annoying!!!! today at 2 my mom Bridger and I are going to give alot of stuff away to poor kids and familes. then tonight they have stations of the cross where they dress up and act everything out. Then going to the los amigos band and practice with them. The girls are muy bonita some of them. Im getting good at volleyball i played that all morning with some girls and guys. They have fireworks here they make them by hand and one just went of about 10 seconds ago ha. Im gunna get my hair cut tonight at 9 and will be on facebook for awhile. I have to take cold showers everyday it SUCKS!!!!

i will post more later
BRAEDEN MATHERN

March 5th

Well, the kids are actually acclamating better than I thought. Yesterday they played volleyball with the neighborhood kids, using a tree branch for a post, and a string as the net. The balls here are very worn out, flat, and they hurt when you use them. Today I promised Brookston and Braeden that they can go downtown with Wilder and get some new balls for the neighborhood kids to use. The boys will also build some shelves in their room to put their clothes on. Their room is literally 8x12 with a bunk bed......no place for suitcases or storage.

Yesterday the kids finished packing the bags for the school kids.....nearly 400 total! They ran out of notebooks, rulers, pens and erasers.....so had to quit. Bridger was using the wheelbarrow to haul the bags to the library for storage....it was very cute!

I had a meeting with their tutor who will be helping with their American homework when I am at work, and teaching Spanish lessons.....The kids really liked Liz and will do well with her.

I made several home visits to the people who will not be able to travel to the medical post when then LAMA team arrives. We have a list of those who need home visits from the doctors. I will be doing visits all day today again. I have an interpreter named Charro....she is awesome!

I also had a meeting yesterday regarding the "Home in a box" project. I will be taking this project on for Los Amigos. It was awesome seeing the families who received a box from the US. I recognized a lot of items from St. Rose Care Center in LaMoure, who sent down 9 boxes.

Today will be very busy, and tonight we will attend stations of the cross in another neighborhood. Each week on Fridays they have stations in a different neighborhood, and the rumor is the people dress up and act out the stations in each place......looking forward to it! The kids will then begin practice with the choir group, who have asked them to join them while they are here.......will be very interesting!!

More later,
Collette

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

SPANISH CLASS

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we arived at the miniapolis airport only to find out our plane was cancled. 1, 1/2 hours later we got it rerouted it left in a 1/2 hour and we had to clear security and bagage yet, we were literly running down the turminal to catch our flight. once in dallas Texas we rode a skylink (a railrode type thing) we got on our plane and a baby cryed the whole way. once in miami we ate and micdonald, then we had a 2 hour lay over so we went shopping and lost brinly and bridger mom was mad that they ran off. then our flight was delyade due to a big rain storm in miami, then it was delayed again due to the earthquack in chily and the tsunami in the pacific ocean. we flew first class so that was cool. when we arived in lima peru we ran to imigration to beat the long lines then stood in line for 45 minutes trying to get our bags, then we had to go to customes and ofcourse mom hit the button and it turned red so there we were geting our bags checked for bombs again evidentaly you cant have an ipod straped to two water bottles. then willy and hector finnaly picked us up and took us to our hotel room at 3 in da morning.
It was a long day

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Monday, March 1, 2010

Tour of downtown, History

Interesting day today. We started out downtown Lima at the Museum of Inquision. Hmmmmm. All about the torture chambers. They had wax dummies for the poor souls being tortured. OK....gotta admit, it was very disturbing, but the kids were very engrossed! The English guide was ill today, so we had the tour in Spanish, but needless to say, it was quite explainatory! Brookston and Braeden took pictures and notes and will do a report on it for their class.

Then we went off to the San Franciso Cathedral. We learned a lot about the Franciscan brothers from Italy who came over.......they had catacombs under the church, with about 25,000 people's bones laying in crypts down there. I had been there 2x before, but the kids were quite shocked. I was actually surprised at how much they listened to the guide, and asked questions! Too bad they wouldn't let us take ANY pictures in there though. It was pretty amazing....we didn't get to go in the cathedral though, as it was closed. We got pictures of it from the outside, though.

We saw the government palace where president Alan Garcia resides. Boys were like, "Mom--these guys are armed and ready to kill".....talking about the security surrounding the palace.....

SO much history here! We then went and bought Bridger his set of professional bongos, complete with a carrying case. He still has a smile on his face! Then, we looked all over downtown Lima for an instrument called a Ocarina, made of bamboo. Both Brin and Braeden wanted one yesterday, but only one where we were, so decided to wait.....long story short, we ended up going all the way across town back to the Inca Market to purchase the one we originally saw......the musician said they are rare, and it appears that it's the only one in the city!!
SO-----I now have one very sad girl. I have put out an APB for one in Chimbote......I sure hope someone finds one for her!!!!! As for Brookston, he will play the guitar, and I will play some sort of marraccas (sp?)......hope to have a whole band soon!

Boys are playing pool upstairs, Willy and I are watching Bridger get a bongo lesson from a hotel guest.....More later!
PS---I am REALLY thinking I've had enough 1:4 time with my kids!!!!!!!!

First days of trip

WOW---after all the "hoop-la" getting here, we are finally here! Saturday was a plethra of trials. Morning started at 4am, and at 4:30, just 15 min. before leaving for the airport, Jason came in and said he had locked the keys in the pick up! No way, I thought....all our luggage is in the back, so this won't be so bad. We took 2 cars to the airport, thanks to Ann and Dick Miller. It was a VERY quick "goodbye" on the curb, and off Jason and Dick went......

So we are standing in line to check in, and find out that our flight had been cancelled d/t the storm on the East coast. We stood there from 5:15am to 6:30 until they found a re-route for us. I told them if they couldn't muster us up a miracle, then all 5 of us and our 17 bags would be going home with them until we could leave!! I saw the panic in their eyes, and they worked faster! So at 6:30, they got us all re-routed.....we did a marathon........checked bags, passed through security, and sprinted to our gate....for a plane that left at 7am!!! We did NOT expect our baggage to follow us, but luckily it made it!! THANK GOD!!

So off to Dallas TX, then over to Miami........and just when I thought we were "in the clear," a storm hits Miami, earthquake in Chile, tsunami in the Pacific.........UGH!!!!!! Plane was delayed 3 different times......Long story shorter, we flew FIRST CLASS from Miami to Lima, and arrived at 1:30am....only 3 hours late! Step 1---pass immigration. Step 2----collect bags. Step 3---clear customs (OF COURSE I hit the button and it was red, so all our luggage had to be scanned, delaying us yet another 45 minutes!) FINALLY, we are "out" and met Wilder and Hector, who took us to our hotel. Arrived at 3am, had a few Crown Royals, (duty free :-)) and at 4am tried to sleep.....up at 7, ready to go!!

We toured Barranco by foot, then by van.....Bridger had his first experience bartering with a man for a cross necklace. Grandpa Jimmy Joe's order.....he would be SO proud! Bridger said he could only spend $3 US on one so he could have more money for other things!! LOL.

Then we went to Larcomar, a very Americanized plaza on the cliff overlooking the ocean. Kids had a great time playing video games there! 2 tokens for 1 sol, so about 15 cents per token!!

Back to hotel for quick nap, and off to the water park for a very spectacular light show.
Supper across street from hotel....PIZZA TO DIE FOR!!!!

Today, we will tour the Palace, Cathedrals, Catacombs, etc........Brin is very excited to see Francisco Pizzaro's bones in the one cathedral! She's been studying!!

So the kids are doing very well......food has not been a problem this far. They have not asked for too many things to purchase, so mostly just food! They are getting used to not throwing the toilet paper in the toilet, but it's hard!

Will blog again in a few days.....

Love to all,
Collette